For the trade

The South Asian wedding desk

A Hindu, Sikh or Gujarati destination wedding is not a Western wedding with more guests. It is a four day, multi event programme with fire, food and family constraints that most resort wedding coordinators have never had to price. This is the desk you call when you have taken one on.

The eleven things that go wrong

In our experience these are, in order, where South Asian destination weddings come apart. Every one of them is preventable at contract stage and expensive afterwards.

  • Outside vendor fees. Charged per vendor. Five outside vendors means five fees. Negotiable before signature, effectively fixed afterwards.
  • Fire ceremony approval. Havan and agni require written approval, sometimes a fire marshal, sometimes a specific surface or location. Never assume the sales team has checked.
  • Catering that is vegetarian in name only. Shared fryers, meat stocks and no eggless dessert. Jain requirements need a named chef and a written menu.
  • Mandap load in. Weight, access, overnight build and teardown windows, and whether the space is available the day before.
  • Sound curfew. A sangeet that has to stop at ten is not a sangeet. Get the curfew and the decibel limit in writing.
  • Room block attrition. Contracted optimistically, filled realistically, and the difference lands on the couple.
  • Guest visas. Indian passport holders travelling to Mexico or the Caribbean need lead time measured in months, not weeks.
  • Baraat logistics. Horse, car or procession route, and whether the property will permit any of it.
  • Granthi and Guru Granth Sahib Ji protocol. Accommodation, transport and a dedicated room that meets protocol, agreed in advance.
  • Customs on décor and gifts. Commercial quantities are treated as imports. Duty and clearance are real costs.
  • Hurricane season. A wedding in the window without appropriate insurance and a contractual force majeure position is an uninsured bet.

What the desk does for you

Resort vetting against the real list

We shortlist properties on the operational criteria above rather than on photography, and we ask the questions in a form the resort has to answer specifically.

Contract language

Vendor fee caps, fire approval, curfew, catering standard, backup space, attrition and force majeure written into the contract rather than promised in an email.

Guest travel from India

Visa timelines by nationality, routings from Indian cities, and the documentation elderly guests will need at both ends.

Officiant travel

Pandit ji, granthi or maharaj travel and accommodation, plus protocol requirements handled with the property directly.

Catering briefs

Jain, satvik, pure vegetarian and no onion no garlic specified per event and signed off by the executive chef, not the wedding coordinator.

Room block and air

The whole guest operation: block management, group air across departure cities, payments, changes and reconciliation.

You keep the creative

We are not a design studio and we do not want your décor budget. If you are a planner, the aesthetic, the client relationship and the day itself remain entirely yours. We sit underneath, on the travel and contract side, and we are as visible or invisible as you want us to be.