Gujarati weddings

A Gujarati wedding abroad, with the food question settled first

Two things reliably go wrong with Gujarati destination weddings. The catering conversation happens too late, and the garba gets squeezed into a ballroom that cannot hold it. Both are entirely avoidable, but only if they are raised at contracting rather than at the menu tasting six weeks out.

Pure vegetarian, and sometimes Jain

Pure vegetarian catering at a Caribbean all-inclusive is entirely solvable. Jain catering, with no onion, no garlic and no root vegetables, is also solvable, but it is a materially harder ask and a resort that agrees casually on a sales call has usually not spoken to its kitchen.

The properties that handle this well tend to be the ones with a standing Indian kitchen rather than a chef flown in for the week. Royalton Riviera Cancun has an Indian restaurant with a dedicated chef. Hard Rock Punta Cana runs Indian menus as part of an established programme. Where a property cannot do it in-house, the alternative is importing a caterer, which triggers an outside vendor fee and changes your budget by a meaningful amount.

What we ask, and when

Before you sign: can the kitchen produce pure vegetarian across every event, not just the reception? Is a separate preparation area available? If Jain, will they commit in writing to no onion, no garlic and no root vegetables? If not, what is the outside caterer fee and are there restrictions on who we can bring? Getting these answers takes a week. Getting them late costs money.

The events, and what each one needs

Grah shanti and pithi

Usually intimate, usually daytime, often in a suite or a small garden space rather than a full venue. Cheap to accommodate but frequently forgotten in the package, which means it appears as an unexpected line item later.

Mehndi

Needs shade, seating and good light, and runs longer than resorts expect. Artists usually travel with the family; check the outside vendor policy covers them.

Garba night

The one most often under-specified. Garba needs open floor, not a banquet layout, and a resort quoting you a ballroom at seated capacity has effectively halved your dance space. Ask for the standing capacity and the cleared floor dimensions.

Ceremony and reception

Mandap requirements, ceremony length and whether an agni is permitted, then a reception that most packages actually do cover properly.

If you are planning from Houston or Chicago

Sugar Land, Katy and Stafford hold one of the largest Gujarati communities in the United States, and Naperville and Schaumburg are not far behind. Both markets have deep local vendor benches, which means bringing your own caterer, decorator or artists is realistic. It also means the outside vendor fee schedule at your chosen resort matters more to your budget than it would for a family with fewer options at home.

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Krishna Verma is the person you would need when coordinating and preparing for your destination wedding. Her years of experience is invaluable and she possess the knowledge, skills and experience to get you what you need plus extras. Without her my wedding would have not been the wedding of the year as stated by family and friends. She is passionate about helping people and is very professional that even when there are situations that are hard to navigate she helps to guide you through. I would recommend her to anyone looking to have a destination Indian wedding that would be remembered for years to come.

Neha Gangwani
Celebrated their dream wedding in Punta Cana